I gave birth to my son four years ago, amid a background of falling bombs. Since that day, I have been praying for him and us to live long enough to see the other side of the war that has been tearing my country – Yemen – apart for more than five years. Today, I have a new fear: COVID-19.
I have seen women show unparalleled strength and resilience
I work for Save the Children. We are on the frontlines one of the world’s worst humanitarian crisis. I have met children and adults who have witnessed the loss of family members in attacks that destroyed their home and left them severely injured. I have spoken to parents who are unable to provide the basic needs for their children to survive. I have seen families losing their home and moving to camps for the displaced where water and food are often a luxury. I have encountered hundreds of children who were out of school trying to support their parents by bringing home pieces of dry bread they found or a bottle of clean water. I also met children who were trying to cope with a new disability inflicted by explosive remnants they mistook for toys.
Through it all, I have seen women show unparalleled strength and resilience, picking up the pieces and moving on. You’d think that a woman whose home comprises of two rooms for a a displaced family of 10-15 people, or one whose child has been admitted to a health facility after malnutrition turned them to skin and bones, would have no will to keep living.
Skipping meals and selling everything they own
Every time I asked women: “How are you?”, they all responded with the same answer “Alhamdulillah” which simply means “grateful”. I always thought how could you be grateful when you are going through so much? You see, in my country, 21% of females who are the head of their household are under 18. They are still children themselves. Many of them have had to skip meals to make sure their children have enough to eat. Others have sold everything they own – jewellery, land, livestock – to put bread on the table. And many, many others have accumulated debt.
I didn’t realize what “Alhamdulillah” really meant until I met one woman in the city-port of Hodeida. A mother of four, one day she went out to get some vegetables to cook for her family. An airstrike hit her home killing her husband, daughter, and grandson and injuring her two other children. She welled up with tears while telling me the story, but then looked me straight in the eyes and said with a smile “Alhamdulillah, what can we do? Was there anything in my hand that I could’ve done to stop what happened? No. They were home, where we were supposed to feel safe. Luckily I still have my other two children alive. Other women probably lost their entire family while they were asleep. Now that we lost our home, we will move to live with a relative and I will register my young children to a new school and life will continue.”
That’s when I realised that Yemeni women can’t afford to be weak. They find strength and resilience amid living an unbearable life cornered by the triple threat of starvation, bombs and disease.
Coronavirus poses a new and deadly threat
Now, Coronavirus is not just knocking on the door, but threatening to break it down. There are over 1,500 confirmed cases in Yemen, but the true numbers are much higher – many health workers say the virus is spreading out of control. Only half of health facilities in the country were fully functional before the virus, and there are shortages in crucial protective equipment and life-saving medical supplies like oxygen.
How can the country, and its women who do everything in the household, from washing to cooking and cleaning, keep everyone safe, and apply the rules of prevention – handwashing and physical distancing – in those circumstances?
I don’t have the answer, because it needs to be a collective effort from everyone involved, the authorities, donors, the aid organisations and the local community, to do the best we can to limit the impact of an outbreak. We need all the support we can get, medical equipment, training, and funding for humanitarian work. The needs that were already so high, are only set to increase.
When my son was born, I would stare at him for hours at night, looking at his beautiful peaceful face, and feeling sad and guilty for bringing him to such an insecure life. But ever since I met all these inspiring women, I’ve made a commitment to be strong like them.
They have taught me to say “Alhamdulillah” every day, for I can provide safety, health and love for my son. And with the help of my fellow country men and women, and the international community, I hope we will keep Yemen’s children and their families safe from Covid-19, so that they can grow up to fulfil their own dreams.
By Sukaina Sharafuddin – Media and communications coordinator at Save the Children in Yemen
Blog originally published on 20th April 2020, updated on 16th July 2020.
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Our response in Yemen
Yemen has the highest coronavirus fatality rate in the world. So far, 1 million people are predicted to have contracted the virus. We’re urgently:
- setting up COVID-19 treatment centres to care for families with the virus
- providing lifesaving malnutrition treatment for children
- training frontline health staff and providing them with vital PPE