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Being a parent isn't easy - and you're not expected to have all the answers.

Every day brings new questions. How do I help my anxious child settle into school? What's the best way to explain scary news headlines? How can I keep my family safe during extreme weather?

You're already doing an incredible job, but sometimes we all need a little extra support. That's exactly what this parenting hub is for.

Here you’ll find practical parenting tips, expert insights, and reassuring guidance for the moments that matter most - from everyday learning opportunities to navigating those tricky conversations we all face. Whether you want quick parenting advice or a place to talk parenting through, our support is judgement-free and made for families across the UK. Save the Children has spent over a century working with children and families around the world. We’ve drawn on that expertise to bring you parenting advice and support that’s grounded in research and real experience.

Updated October 2026

What Makes Good Parenting?

There’s no single recipe for good parenting, and no such thing as a perfect parent. What helps most is surprisingly simple.

Children do best when they feel loved and know they can count on you, so warm, nurturing relationships come first. Consistency helps too. Familiar routines and clear expectations make the world feel safer and more predictable. Communication matters just as much. Listen to how your child feels before you try to fix things, and help them find words for their emotions. The NHS has a helpful guide to talking to your child about feelings.

Emotional support doesn’t mean getting everything right, either. Saying sorry after a rough day shows your child how healthy relationships work. Good parenting skills are things anyone can learn and practise, and parenting guidelines are a starting point, not a test you can fail. If you’re showing up with love and doing your best, you’re doing well.

Positive Parenting Tips That Strengthen Family Relationships

Positive parenting is about guiding your child’s behaviour while building a warm, respectful bond. These parenting skills tips are small enough to try today.

Start with praise and encouragement. Be specific, like “I loved how you kept trying”, so your child learns that effort matters. Practise active listening by putting down your phone, getting to their level and repeating back what you’ve heard. Routines for mornings, mealtimes and bedtimes help children feel secure and cut down on daily battles.

Boundaries work best when they’re clear, calm and consistent. The NHS offers practical advice on dealing with challenging behaviour in children. Finally, build resilience by letting your child try things, find them tricky and try again, while knowing you’re right there if they need you. Our guides on learning through play and difficult conversations are good places to put these parenting advice tips and strategies into practice.

Cost of Living & Practical Support

Money worries make everything harder - and you shouldn’t have to face them alone. Whether it’s covering the cost of the summer holidays, finding help with school uniforms, or checking if your child is eligible for free school meals, this section brings together practical, no-judgement support for families feeling the squeeze.

In this section, you can find help with childcare and activities during the school holidays, what’s changing for back to school this year, whether your child is eligible for free school meals and how free school breakfast clubs work.

Mia, two & dad Gordon, at a Dadbods' Sunday meet-up, Belfast

Back to school >

See what’s changing this school year and how to keep the cost of uniforms and supplies down.

Aden, 3, is thrown in the air by dad Sabri,  at a Family Fun Day hosted by the Sheffield Early Learning Community. Aden is wearing a blue top and shorts.

Hanna Adcock / Save the Children

School holiday support >

Find out what help with childcare, meals and activities may be available where you live during the school holidays.

Kaden, 5, holding his favourite fruit and veg, at a 'Holiday Bites' session.

Harry Lawlor

Free school meals >

Check whether your child is eligible, with the rules for each UK nation explained.

A portrait of Aahil, six, holding up a banana as he smiles, at 'Holiday Bites', Greater Manchester

Harry Lawlor

Free school breakfast clubs explained >

Learn how free school breakfast clubs work and how to find out whether your child’s school offers one.

Students taking part in Christmas Jumper Day. One girl is wearing a red christmas jumper and a gold bow and looking ahead, smiling.

Christmas on a budget >

Practical ideas for enjoying the festive season without overspending.

Child Learning and Development

Turn everyday moments into learning opportunities. From kitchen maths to storytelling adventures, these parenting tips help your child thrive while strengthening family bonds - no fancy equipment needed.

In this section, you can find how to make learning fun at home, what activities support your child’s development, how to encourage creativity and imagination and how to make reading more engaging for your child.

Akieal, two & early years practitioner Georgina, on a Summer of Play camping trip, Sheffield

Fun things to do with kids for free >

Low-cost and no-cost ideas to keep children busy, curious and active, at home or out and about.

Awa, 11, and Mariam, 10, participating in a class

Emotional intelligence resources for parents >

Resources to help children name their feelings, understand others and build empathy.

Joy* and her nine month old twins Evan* & Mitchell* play with the new Infant & Toddler Wonderpacks

11 family learning activities >

Eleven simple activities that turn everyday moments into learning, using things you already have at home.

Joy* and her nine month old twins Evan* and Mitchell* read the book from the Infant Wonderpack

Reading with your child >

Tips for making reading time more engaging and enjoyable for children of different ages.

Shahria, two, plays at a Lego play innovation lab in Tower Hamlets

The importance of play >

Why play matters for children’s development, and easy ways to make more space for it.

Supporting a Child’s Mental Health and Emotional Wellbeing

Every parent worries about keeping their children safe - physically and emotionally. From extreme weather protection to recognising signs of anxiety, get practical guidance that helps your family stay safe and emotionally healthy through everyday challenges and unexpected situations.

We cover everything from how to keep children safe online, extreme weather protection, recognising signs of anxiety and supporting children through worried moments.

Kateryna* and her sister Veronika* are playing educational games on tablets at a Digital Learning Centre (Dnipro Region, East Ukraine)

How to keep children safe online >

Practical steps to help children use the internet safely and know what to do if something worries them.

Wivine*, 6 years old, happy about the availability of water in a spring built by SCI with funding from ECHO

10 tips for keeping children safe during a heatwave >

Simple ways to protect children from extreme heat, from staying hydrated to keeping cool.

Matthew, five, with Dad Alan at Dadbods' Sunday meetup, Belfast

Anna Sass

Children’s mental health >

Understand how children’s mental health changes throughout childhood and where to find support.

Paula and son Cameron, five, with their certificates, at their final Families Connect session in Belfast

5 ways to help a child with back to school anxiety >

Gentle strategies to help a worried child feel more settled as school starts.

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What to do if a child is worried >

How to listen, reassure and support a child who is feeling anxious or worried.

Two teenage boys work at computer screens with the help of a smiling teacher in a computer science room at a school.

Cyberbullying - facts, effects and how to prevent it >

What cyberbullying is, how it can affect children and the steps that can help prevent it.

Eipril, 11 & mum Oleksa pose for a photo, at their home close to Margate, Kent

How to help children in emergencies >

How to support children affected by emergencies and talk with them about what has happened.

Values & Character Building

Find practical strategies for raising children who care about others, understand different perspectives, and feel confident making a positive difference. These approaches help build empathy, resilience, and global awareness in age-appropriate ways.

In this section, you can find answers to how to raise a child to become a compassionate, globally-aware citizen, how to discuss gender equality, how to challenge unconscious bias and raise a global citizen and how to talk about refugees.

Lucy, four, playing with Joyce, 13, in a remote community in Malaita Province, the Solomon Islands.

Conor Ashleigh / Save the Children

How to raise compassionate, globally-aware children >

Simple ways to nurture empathy, curiosity and a sense of fairness in children as they grow.

Dana*, 13, (red hijab) plays football at a Child Friendly Space

Teaching children about gender equality >

How to talk about gender equality in age-appropriate ways and help children challenge stereotypes.

Dana*, 13, plays with her friends and a puppet at Save the Children's Child Friendly Space

How to talk to your children about refugees >

Guidance for explaining why people have to leave their homes, with compassion and honesty.

Vepaiamele, 15, takes part in a climate demonstration outside the Peace Palace in The Hague, Netherlands.

5 ways to challenge unconscious bias and raise a global citizen >

Five practical steps to help children recognise bias and treat everyone with respect.

Parenting Help & Support When Family Life Feels Overwhelming

Some weeks, family life feels like too much. That doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means you’re human, and reaching out for parenting help is one of the strongest things you can do.

Start small. Tell a friend, a relative or another parent how you’re feeling. If school pressures are part of the picture, your child’s class teacher or school pastoral lead can often point you to support, and your GP is there for your own wellbeing too. Charities can help as well. Family Lives runs a free, confidential helpline on 0808 800 2222 for parents and carers, and Home-Start matches families with young children to trained local volunteers. You’ll find more places to turn in our parent support groups and community help section, and if money is adding to the pressure, see our cost of living and practical support guides. Parental support is out there, and you’re allowed to use it.

Understanding Parental Burnout and How to Recover

Parental burnout is what can happen when the stress of parenting builds up for too long. Action for Children’s Parent Talk service describes it as feeling that you don’t have time to look after your own needs, or that the pressure to be a “good” parent is too much.

Warning signs. You might feel physically or mentally exhausted, need distance from your child, have a shorter temper, notice more conflict at home, find decisions harder than usual or lean on food, drink or drugs to cope.

Causes. Burnout often follows long-term stress, so taking on too much, juggling money worries, poor sleep and having little time to yourself can all add up.

Recovering. Small changes help. Share the load where you can, lower the bar on the jobs that don’t matter, and protect a little time each day that is just for you. Talk to someone you trust, and be as kind to yourself as you would be to a friend.

When to get help. If you’re not coping or feelings don’t lift, speak to your GP. If you’re in crisis, the NHS explains how to get urgent help for mental health. You don’t have to wait until things are at breaking point.

Difficult Conversations Made Easier

Get age-appropriate guidance for those tricky topics every parent faces. Whether it’s explaining climate change, discussing distressing news, or helping children understand big world issues, approach these conversations with confidence and compassion.

In this section, you can find answers to how to talk to your kids about hard things (such as refugees, gender equality and more), how to talk to your child about scary news stories, what is the best way to explain climate change to children and how to discuss difficult topics without frightening them.

Marko*, eight, and his mum, Yana*, at their home in Bucharest, Romania

How to talk to kids about hard things >

Age-appropriate guidance for tackling tough topics with honesty and care.

Maryna*, 13, and her mother Karyna*, 35, talk to Save the Children staff in Chernihiv, Ukraine

How to talk to children about war >

How to explain conflict to children in a way that is truthful, calm and reassuring.

Lucy, four, playing outside her home in Malaita Province, the Solomon Islands.

How to talk to children about the climate crisis >

Ways to help children understand climate change without feeling overwhelmed, with a focus on hope and action.

Hallie, two, and dad Anson play together at Dads' Club in Cardiff. Hallie has blonde curly hear, and is wearing a navy top with pink polka dots. She is looking down at a pot in her hand. Anson looks down at her, smiling. He is wearing a black hoodie with an orange emblem on the front.

How to talk to your child about money and not having enough >

How to talk honestly about money worries without making children anxious.

Rami* (7) and his father Jamal* (35) both suffered blast injuries in Gaza

How to talk to kids about distressing current events >

Tips for helping children make sense of upsetting news and feel safe.

Kyah, two & Sadie on a Summer of Play camping trip, Sheffield

Choosing to have children, despite the climate crisis >

A reflection on parenthood in a changing climate, and how to hold hope alongside worry.

Parenting in the hardest moments

Save the Children supports parents not just in the UK, but in some of the most challenging places in the world - including families living through conflict, displacement, and crisis.

In Ukraine, our Safe Families programme works with parents like Andrii*, a single father raising three children in a frontline city in the Kharkiv region. Through structured sessions on positive parenting and stress management, Andrii learned practical tools that changed his relationship with his 13-year-old son, Artem*. "I became more balanced, I don't shout," Andrii says. "When my son does something [that frustrates me], I clench my fists, hold for 10 seconds - and it passes."

His son Artem* puts it simply: after the programme, his dad "became kinder, helps more. He helps with homework, or when I feel sad."

From Sheffield to Kharkiv, the same truth holds: parenting support works. And when parents are supported, children thrive.

Read more about Save the Children's family support programmes around the world.

*Names changed to protect identities

Artem*, 13, and his father Andrii*, 43, in Kharkiv region, Ukraine

Andrii*, 43, is a single father raising his three children, including his youngest son Artem*, 13, in a frontline city in Kharkiv region, Ukraine. Taking on the full responsibility of parenting during the war has been challenging, especially as daily life, education, and emotional wellbeing have all been disrupted.

Where to Find Parenting Support Groups and Community Help

Talking to other parents can make a huge difference. Here’s where to look for parenting support groups and community help near you.

  • Family hubs. In some parts of England, family hubs bring parenting groups, health visiting and advice together in one place. You can find out if there’s a family hub in your area. If there isn’t one, your local council can point you to family support services.
  • Health visitors. If you have a child under 5, your health visitor can talk through worries and signpost local groups.
  • Schools. Ask your child’s school about parent groups, coffee mornings and family learning sessions.
  • Local charities. Home-Start offers friendly home visits and group support for families with young children in many areas.
  • Online communities. Online spaces can help when getting out is hard. Choose ones moderated by trusted charities.

Parenting Talks, Resources and Expert Guidance

Looking for parenting talks or workshops near you? Your local family hub or school is a good first stop, as many run sessions for parents and carers.

In the meantime, our parenting guide library (this page)  is free to use. For expert advice, the NHS has advice for parents on children’s mental health. You can download our guide to play for ideas that fit into everyday life, and try our family learning activities to turn ordinary moments into learning. Every guide is written to give you parenting advice, tips and resources you can use today, with no judgement.

Common Parenting Questions

How to be a good parent?

There’s no perfect way to be a parent. Show warmth, be consistent, listen to your child and be kind to yourself when things go wrong. Good parenting is built from small, everyday moments rather than getting everything right.

Read more about what makes good parenting.

Keep explanations age-appropriate, honest but reassuring. Focus on what's being done to help, limit their exposure to repeated news coverage, and create space for them to ask questions. Let them know it's normal to feel worried and that you're there to keep them safe. Younger children (under 7) need very brief, simple answers. Older children benefit from more context and the chance to express their feelings. Avoid watching rolling news together and check in with them over the following days.

Read our full guide to talking to kids about distressing current events.

Look for changes in behaviour like trouble sleeping, increased clinginess, physical complaints (tummy aches, headaches), avoiding activities they used to enjoy, or increased irritability. Children often express anxiety through behaviour rather than words. If symptoms persist for more than two weeks or are affecting school or friendships, speak to your GP or school SENCO. Reassurance, consistent routine, and open conversation are usually the most effective first steps.

Read our guide to helping children with back-to-school anxiety.

Parental burnout is what can happen when the stress of parenting builds up for too long and feels overwhelming. You might feel exhausted, short-tempered or in need of distance from your child. It isn’t a sign you’re a bad parent - it’s a sign you need support. Talking to your GP, a friend or a free service like Parent Talk is a good first step.

Read more in our guide to understanding parental burnout and how to recover.

Turn everyday moments into learning opportunities - cooking teaches maths, shopping teaches budgeting, storytelling builds literacy. Follow their interests, keep it playful, and prioritise connection over perfection. Learning happens naturally when children feel curious and supported. Research consistently shows that parental involvement in learning - even in small daily doses - has one of the biggest positive effects on educational outcomes. You don't need a structured lesson plan; five minutes of conversation about what they're curious about is enough.

Explore our family learning activities.

Use age-appropriate language, focus on solutions alongside problems, and emphasise that many people are working to help. Let them take small actions (recycling, nature care) so they feel empowered rather than helpless. Answer their questions honestly but without overwhelming them. For children under 8, focus on nature and caring for the environment rather than the science. Older children can handle more information and often benefit from taking part in local or school-based environmental activities.

Read our guide to talking to children about the climate crisis.

Model empathy in your own behaviour, expose them to diverse stories and perspectives, encourage questions about fairness and differences, and create opportunities for them to help others in age-appropriate ways. Compassion grows through practice and example. Simple habits - like discussing news stories together, reading books featuring characters from different backgrounds, or talking openly about why inequality exists - build global awareness gradually and naturally.

Read our guide to raising compassionate, globally-aware children.

Eligibility depends on where you live in the UK and your household circumstances - in England, most families need to be receiving certain benefits, though some nations now offer free meals to all primary-age children regardless of income. It's worth checking even if you're not sure, since the rules vary more than most parents expect.

Check the full eligibility criteria for your nation.

Breakfast clubs are becoming more widely available across England, with government funding extending free provision to more primary schools. Availability depends on your local authority and individual school, so the best first step is asking your school office directly.

Read our guide to how free school breakfast clubs work.

Many local authorities run holiday activity and food programmes offering free or subsidised childcare, meals, and activities during school breaks - though eligibility and availability vary by area. Some charities and community groups also run low-cost holiday clubs worth checking locally.

See our full guide to school holiday support.

Uniform costs catch a lot of families out each year. Some local authorities offer uniform grants, many schools run second-hand uniform schemes, and supermarkets often have budget ranges specifically for this. Starting early and asking your school what support exists is the best first move.

Get our full back-to-school cost-saving guide.